Are Children Worth It?

 
January 28, 2009
by Jennifer Roback Morse
 

Let us state it at once: Revolutionary Road is a bad movie, despite the awards it garnered from its Hollywood peers. The story is Hollywood's fantasy of the stultifying life in the 1950's suburbs. Unbelievable storyline, unsympathetic characters, and a socially irresponsible message: evidently these are the requirements for Hollywood awards.

The storyline: April (Kate Winslett) and Frank Wheeler (Leonard DiCaprio) are living meaningless, hopeless lives in the suburbs. He goes to a pointless job he hates. She raises two children whom we don't see enough of to care about. She proposes that they sell their house and move to Paris.  She will support the family by working in a government secretarial pool and he will do something meaningful and find himself.  He agrees. Then he gets a promotion he wants and she gets pregnant. He backs out of the plan to go to Europe. She gives herself an abortion and dies. Why? Don't ask me. There is no particular reason for any of these characters to do any of the things they do.

The characters are not only unbelievable, but completely unsympathetic. Leonard DiCaprio has an affair with a brainless girl in the secretarial pool. Kate Winslett has sex in the car with a neighbor. When the main characters quarrel, we can't figure out whom to root for: they are both self-absorbed and narcissistic. Throughout, the one and only consistent motivation for these characters is their desire to feel "special" and that they are somehow not like everyone else.

We are supposed to believe that abortion should be legal so that women like April are not so desperate that they kill themselves through self-induced abortion. The scene in which she plans her abortion is so overwrought, I couldn't bring myself to care about her. I considered abandoning my disapproval of euthanasia: please, put this character out of her misery so we can end this movie.

But what makes this movie so bad is not just the hackneyed storyline, but the socially irresponsible message the movie conveys. I am talking about the thinly veiled hostility to children, combined with the nauseating narcissism of the adults. In an era of demographic decline, the message that children are the problem and abortion is the solution is grotesque. And the story itself doesn't even accurately portray what it seems to portray.

There are no real children in this movie, even though the protagonists have children. The children are mere props in the story. There are no bicycles in the driveway, no swing sets in the backyard, no screen doors slamming, no children careening through the house with a half dozen other kids from the neighborhood.

The aborted child bears the full weight of the adults' disappointments. April blames the child for her frustration that the family is not moving to Paris after all. But the child is not really to blame: Frank would have refused to go to Europe even if his wife weren't pregnant. The abortion solves none of her problems. She still is living with a husband she doesn't like very much. Her husband wants his promotion.  She is still living in the suburbs. And above all, she is still normal. There is nothing special about her.

In the meantime, society has moved on since the Dreaded Fifties. Hollywood may not have noticed, but the birth rate among college educated white women, like the characters in Revolutionary Road, is down around 1.7 babies per woman. The modern problem is not too many children, but too few. The modern problem is not that society forces women to stay home in the suburbs to raise children, but that society makes it almost impossible for them to do so. Between financial pressures, career goals, social attitudes and government policy, many women have fewer children than they want, and spend less time at home with them than they want.

In contrast to this glitzy Hollywood production, Demographic Winter is an independently produced film describing the consequences of the population collapse of industrialized countries. The film argues that falling population will mean a diminished quality of life for the aging generation and for future generations. For instance, pensions, both private and public, have to be paid for. When the retired population is too high relative to the working population, paying the promised pensions becomes an enormous burden. Either the young pay crushing taxes, or the elderly will not get what they expected, or both.

Consumer spending keeps the economy humming and the stock market climbing. When population shrinks, the demand for goods and services of all kinds shrinks. I have been thinking about demographic decline while I drive through my San Diego neighborhood. Out of forty-two homes, we have four foreclosures. Yes, the housing prices ballooned up and people took on mortgages they couldn't pay. But there is more to the story than the credit crunch: there simply are not enough people at the right age, with enough income, to afford these houses. Because the Baby Boomers didn't replace themselves, there are not enough people to buy their homes. Falling demand translates into falling home prices.

The Chattering Classes can not bring themselves to take the Demographic Winter thesis seriously. The Left dismisses it as a hysterical racist rant. The Libertarian Right wants to talk about how the modern world has given men and women more choices, which is a good thing. And Hollywood keeps dishing up a very thin fantasy of Life in the Fifties, dreamed up out of a screen writer's hallucinations of Betty Friedan's version of hell.

Yet demography really will be destiny. We are placing our children in a bind, from which they may not be able to extricate themselves.


A Christian bus driver refused to drive buses carrying an advertisement that declares “There’s probably no God.”

Speaking to BBC Radio Solent, Ron Heather said he felt “shock” and “horror” at the slogan on the ads when he turned up for work last Saturday.

The ads have been put up by the British Humanist Association on buses across the United Kingdom with the support of prominent atheist Professor Richard Dawkins. They proclaim: “There’s probably no God. Now stop worrying and enjoy your life.”

Heather returned to work on Monday with bus operators, First Bus, who said they would try to ensure he did not have to drive buses carrying the ads.

Christian Refuses to Drive Buses with 'No God' Ads

"I was just about to board and there it was staring me in the face, my first reaction was shock horror," Heather told BBC Radio Solent.

"I felt that I could not drive that bus, I told my managers and they said they haven't got another one and I thought I better go home, so I did," he said. "I think it was the starkness of this advert which implied there was no God."

The Christian Post


Are poor children a drag on the economy?

The ever more powerful and bold Nancy Pelosi, Speaker of the House, recently suggested slipping a little surprise into the bloated economic stimulus package now before Congress. Hundreds of millions of dollars for contraception. Exactly how, one might wonder, will doling out free contraception to the poor help stimulated the economy?

When asked that most obvious question on national television, she replied, “Well, the family planning services reduce cost. They reduce cost. The states are in terrible fiscal budget crises now and part of what we do for children's health, education and some of those elements are to help the states meet their financial needs. One of those—one of the initiatives you mentioned, the contraception, will reduce costs to the states and to the federal government.”

It seems that, for Pelosi, poor people are a drag on the economy. The less poor people we have, the more money we’ll have to spend on other people. Like Pelosi, we assume.

There was an immediately outcry, and much to his credit, President Obama politely requested that Pelosi back off. It was obvious to Republicans, whose votes Obama needs, that the Stimulus Package was being used as a kind of wish list come true for folks like Pelosi.

But as soon as the fires on that controversy died down a little, up comes another attempt that is no less bold. Buried inside the Stimulus Bill on page 47 we find out that the congressfolk who crafted it slipped in another rather interesting item: $335 million for sexually transmitted disease education.

Again, one asks, What exactly does STD education have to do with jolting this country back from the precipice of economic destruction? The answer is—just as it was with Pelosi’s contraception fiasco—absolutely nothing. It is merely a sad attempt by some people in Congress, during a time of epic financial crisis, to boondoggle the public into paying for their pet social engineering projects.

Will President Obama allow Congress to swindle the taxpayers on this one? We don’t know. We hope not. But we shouldn’t let this sad situation go without taking a lesson from it.

Nancy Pelosi, and those like her, must be watched very carefully over the next four years. She seems to be showing the same tendencies as Margaret Sanger, the foundress of Planned Parenthood. Sanger was a passionate supporter of birth control because she believed that the greatest crisis facing the world, was that too many of the unfit, the feeble-minded as she like to call them, were being born. She believed that the poor were by far the greatest breeders of the unfit. Pushing birth control to the poor was, for her, a eugenic solution to the problem. If you have any doubt about that, please read Sanger’s Pivot of Civilization.

We suspect Pelosi sees the world through the same eugenic lens. What should really scare us, is that she was bold enough to have her pet project luxuriously funded in so deceptive a way. Obviously, with the STD funding having now been tucked away in a less perspicuous place in the Stimulus Package, she hasn’t given up, but has only become more careful. Let the taxpayer beware.

Benjamin Wiker


  Jennifer Roback Morse
Jennifer Roback Morse, Ph.D. brings a unique voice to discussions of love, marriage and the family. A committed career woman before having children, she earned a doctorate in economics, and spent fifteen years teaching at Yale University and George Mason University. The devastating experience of infertility changed her life and her research program, for the better! In 1991, she and her husband adopted a two year old Romanian boy, and gave birth to a baby girl. She left her full-time university teaching post in 1996 to move with her family to California. She was a Research Fellow at Stanford University's Hoover Institution. She is now a part-time Research Fellow at the Acton Institute for the Study of Religion and Liberty, and writes and speaks about love, marriage and the family. Until August 2006, Dr. Morse and her husband were foster parents for San Diego County, where they now reside.

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