In my role as Executive Director of Plant With Purpose (formerly Floresta), a Christian development agency with long-term work in Haiti, this has been particularly difficult to watch. I have visited Haiti perhaps 30 times in the past 15 years. Though I work from San Diego, we have a local staff of 42 amazingly dedicated Haitians. Thankfully, all are accounted for and well, although one of our workers lost his wife and ten-day old son when their house collapsed on them.

Fifteen years ago I wasn't all that excited about working in a nation sometimes referred to as "the graveyard of good intentions."  

My first impression of Port-au-Prince was that the tide had come in and stranded garbage and rubble everywhere. Rotting fruit and raw sewage smells combined with the smell of frying meat and exhaust. People spilled out on to the broken streets in every sort of dress imaginable, filling alleys and turning the sidewalks into an impromptu market. In the countryside, a constant parade of pedestrians streamed down either side of the road: old women leading donkeys, men carrying machetes and groups of schoolchildren in ragged yellow uniforms. High above the road, every slope was cultivated with struggling cornfields.

Pere Jean-Wilfrid Albert, an almost superhuman Haitian Episcopal priest who worked in the mountains not far from the epicenter of last week's quake, sparked my special love for Haiti. Banished to a remote rural parish, with virtually nothing, he had, on his own initiative, founded over 30 schools and was responsible for the education of over 13,000 children. (Although Pere Albert died far too young, a victim of cancer, his work is carried on today by the Haitian Education Foundation.)

It was Pere Albert who first showed me what the farmers who make up the bulk of Haiti's population are up against. Yet in spite of the odds against them, their singing rings through the hills each morning as they work together to cultivate hillsides that you and I would find difficult to walk on. Too often portrayed as victims, they are the ultimate survivors.

I remember my first visit to one of those mountain communities. About forty farmers, men and women, waited for us in a tin-roofed shelter. As I surveyed the spectacular setting – from the top of the ridge, the Caribbean was clearly visible to the south, Haiti's tallest mountain, Pic La Selle was in the clouds to the east, and the brilliant blue water of the Bay of Port au Prince sparkled to the north - several people sidled up to me holding out their hands and rubbing their stomachs.

As we met, a woman stood up and in a confrontational tone told me about the other humanitarian and aid agencies that had worked in the area. "Agency X was here, they gave us food - they are gone," she said, listing them. "How is Floresta going to be any different?"

Although I was a bit taken aback, after giving it some consideration, I responded, "Well first of all we are not going to give anything away, and secondly we are not going to leave until you ask us to."

It was her turn to be taken aback.

After that first meeting, our local staff began meeting with the farmers group on a regular basis. They facilitated planning, provided training, and organized a loan group.

Three years later, I again made the trek up the stony ridges to that little village and was met by a very different group. No one asked me for money. They were eager to tell me all that had been accomplished in the community. A credit group had been formed and was making loans. Many farmers had bought the land they had been renting. Trees had been planted. Rainwater harvesting systems and cisterns had been constructed. Fruit trees had been grafted. But the highlight of the meeting occurred when one of women stood up and proudly told me: "What you have given us is the knowledge that we are not helpless, but that God has given us talents that we can use to change our community."

Working together we have accomplished small but remarkable things, but they represent the accomplishments of the poor themselves. More than 420,000 trees have been planted by farmers who are practicing a whole new type of agriculture, suited for steep hillsides and far more productive. Because it makes sense for them economically, these farmers will go on planting trees long after we are gone. Thousands of small business loans have been made. Fruit production has been improved. Hundreds of miles of soil erosion control measures – often living barriers of trees - have been installed and hundreds of rainwater harvesting systems have been built. Dozens of Bible studies have been held.

But Plant With Purpose, and our Haitian staff have merely been a catalyst for their success. The loans we have made (with a repayment rate of 98%) and the training we have provided have helped to uncover the talents of the people themselves.

Too often aid fails because it is applied without understanding the needs of the people who receive it and without involving them in the planning. Furthermore, nothing is required of them. Aid is done to them, by outsiders. In time it robs them of dignity, self confidence and initiative.

If the post-earthquake relief and recovery effort in Haiti is to succeed, Haitians need to participate in its planning and execution. Our Haitian director, Guy Paraison is meeting today with relief committees and mayors in several towns and cities in our region to talk about their plans and needs for recovery.

After the hurricanes of 2008 he did a similar thing. The local people came up with a plan for supplying seed to those who had been forced to eat their seed after the storms. Two thousand families received new seed and had an abundant harvest, from which they repaid us. Today – by the grace of God – we have several tons of beans stored, not originally intended for an emergency such as this, but suddenly available. Through this experience, we saw leaders gain confidence, and experienced a blossoming of enthusiasm for the rest of our program, as all were energized by the success. That's because we never gave away food, clothing or shelter – we worked to equip people and gave away love and hope.

However, today, as the international community descends on Haiti like a mighty army, I am already hearing stories of local officials being excluded from meetings. I am reading discussions of plans to fix Haiti which involve no Haitian voices. The Haitian government is continually discounted. Granted it was weak before the disaster and has been decimated. However, for Haiti to move forward, Haitian leaders must be at the head of the table. Leaders, at all levels, must be given the opportunity to lead.

We must also be careful of the labels we apply. Labels have a tendency to be self-fulfilling. As Haitian national symbols have crumbled, repeating fictitious stories of a pact with the devil does nothing to build up those who mourn, and worse, casts doubt on the very character of God. Similarly, I have yet to read a news report that does not mention that Haiti is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. While this is undoubtedly true, it is certainly not the whole story, or even the most important part of the story.

I think I understand why Haiti has been the graveyard of good intentions -- too many well-intentioned people want to do for the Haitians what they so desperately want to do for themselves. Today they may need us to do much for them, but as quickly as possible our role should become one of empowerment and support – alongside them.

Those roads, villages and people, who had seemed so ominous in the spring of 1995 are as familiar as family to me now. We have yet to determine the full impact of the earthquake's impact on the 67 villages where Plant With Purpose works, but we are confident that the villagers will rebuild. They are not "done."

Dreadfully misunderstood and overcoming impossible odds, Haitians still manage to face life with a smile, pulling themselves together each morning to toil under the blazing sun. They face their depleted hillside farms with a song. It is not a burden, but an honor, to work alongside them.

The Political World Was Rocked Tuesday by the Election of Scott Brown to the United States Senate

http://www.ontheissues.org/senate/Scott_Brown.htm

The St. Mathias Church in the Haitian village of Cherident crumbled in the earthquake but the long term partnership with U.S. churches remains firm

Of all of the places for a 7.0 earthquake to hit, why did it have to be Haiti? The Haitian people have already been crushed by corrupt politicians, non-existent health care, and the poorest economy in the Americas. 90% of the children suffer from waterborne diseases and intestinal parasites. 5% of the adults are infected with HIV. Add in non-existent building codes and it would be impossible to find a more vulnerable place on earth for last week’s seism.

The current suffering in Haiti is so terrible that the world’s governments have mobilized vast resources to help. But like Katrina, the task of rebuilding water purification systems, schools and churches will take decades, and largely be done by Christian churches and organizations. Fortunately, many have pre-existing close relationships with Haitian Christian communities.

Pastor Dick Thompson is the pastor of Westlake Presbyterian Church in Westlake Villiage, California. “Our church made a long term commitment to the people of Haiti more than 13 years ago. The mission philosophy of our church is that we are in it for the long haul.”

Every year Thompson and other church members spend time in the Haitian village of Cherident about ten miles from the epicenter of the earthquake. “I speak French so I translate for our meeting with Haitian leaders. It's hands on for all of us working on building projects, sharing in worship services, sometimes teaching classes. Since 1997 we have worked with the Haiti Education Fund to help build 34 schools. These schools serve over 13,000 students. Everyone on our team finds the experience extremely rewarding.”

In 2007 WPC was invited to help establish a Haitian operated clinic in the villiage serving the medical needs of hundreds of farmers and their families. Some estimate that about 4% of Haitians ever receive medical care.

“We took the news of this earthquake very personally. We all have dear friends in Haiti. We just heard that Cherident’s church, school, and guesthouse used for visiting workers have either been destroyed or severely damaged. We pray our friends are safe. Needless to say, our commitment to the Haitian people is stronger than ever and will get back to work there as soon as we can.”

Pastor Dick Thompson

click to read Plant With Purpose blog
http://www.plantwithpurpose.blogspot.com

ECFA Provides List of Faithful Haiti Relief Groups to Help Donors Avoid Scams

"The Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability has compiled a list of organizations that are currently assisting or poised to assist in massive relief efforts in Haiti following the country’s devastating 7.0-magnitude earthquake.

With 'raising money for Haiti' scams already popping up following Tuesday’s massive quake, the EFCA is providing its list of nearly faith-based non-profit disaster organizations through its ServantMatch web tool to better connect concerned believers around the world to leading Christian nonprofits that have 'faithfully demonstrate compliance with established standards for financial accountability, fund-raising and board governance.'

'This is an important opportunity for the Christ-centered community to pray and give generously,' commented ECFA President Dan Busby.

'A host of donors will look to ECFA members as those that have been vetted and accountable to ECFA through its highly respected accreditation process,' he added."

Christianpost.com

Click here for list of ECFA's Organizations
http://www.christianpost.com/article/20100114/ecfa-provides-list-of-faithful-haiti-relief-groups-to-help-donors-avoid-scams/index.html

Engaging Your Child’s Cooperation - by Child Development Expert Sandy Spears

According to Myrna Shure’s Raising a Thinking Child, there are 4 ways of asking a child for behavior. View Levels 1 & 2 from a previous tothesource article here.

LEVEL 3 Giving Information
You can give your child information so he understands how life works.

When flowers are stepped on, they die.
The milk spoils when the refrigerator is left open.
Wet towels on the bed make the bed wet and uncomfortable to sleep in.
Glasses placed on the edge of the table can fall and break.
Toys left on the floor can be stepped on and broken.
Toys left outside can be taken.
When your body doesn’t get enough sleep, it has a harder time helping you play the next day.

Talking About Feelings
This teaches a child a way to empathize with others and is another building block to emotional intelligence.

How might Grandma feel if her flowers get stepped on?
How will we feel when we have no milk for breakfast?
How will you feel in bed tonight when the sheets are wet?
How will you feel if your toys get broken?

Send your letter to the editor to feedback@tothesource.org.